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Friday, December 25, 2020

And so this is Christmas...

This year has been topsy turvy for all of us.  Christmas time just makes it blaringly obvious all over again.  Honestly though, things are a little more "normal" around here than for some people now that the government has loosened restrictions a little bit and the bar can be open until 10:30pm.  Of course, at Chistmas that's ridiculously early...but we are happy and relieved that we have a few more hours to do business.  In an attempt to save some money, I am on-call for Angelines to help out (except for Christmas Eve and probably New Year's Eve either).  

Yesterday I spent cooking from about 3pm on.  It was a little like a mini Thanksgiving.  Every year for Christmas Eve my mother-in-law comes over and the three of us (Emily usually passes out before mama gets home from the bar) have a nice quiet dinner together.  In that respect, this year was completely normal.  We didn't make my mother-in-law eat in the garage, we weren't wearing masks.  We see her often enough that it would be silly, honestly.  Yes, Angelines is working now, but that doesn't actually put her in close contact with people and she wears a mask (as does everyone else) so we felt it was okay.  Most importantly, my mother-in-law felt comfortable with it and I think we were all happy to be able to carry on with our Christmas Eve tradition--Emily most of all.

She had her abuelita all to herself all evening and was thrilled.  I think abuelita thought she was being unhelpful, but of course, just keeping Emily occupied and allowing me to carry on in the kitchen was the most helpful thing she could have done!  They played games, danced, abuela gave her a shower (Emily refused otherwise!).  It was a fun-filled evening and Emily reluctantly went to sleep at about 10pm.  She really wanted to catch Santa, but... ;)

For dinner I made my first ever stuffed pork loin.  It came out quite well, if I do say so myself.  When I asked Emily if it was good (she ate before we did), she said, "No, mommy.  It's DELICIOUS!"  So that was pretty high praise, I thought, even though Em really isn't a very picky eater.  It was very tasty, although because I couldn't forsee Angelines's arrival time, and when she got here we were just hungry, our meal was luke warm at best.  Still, it was yummy and so we enjoyed our leisurely meal and chatted until close to midnight.

When abuelita had gone home, Santa had to get busy.  If you remember last year there was a slip up and Emily discovered her present ahead of time because I thought I was so clever assembling before Christmas Eve.  Not this year.  We weren't going to risk it again, so last night we busted out the screwdrivers and wrapping paper and got down to it.  I was terrified Emily was going to wake up and catch us!

This year Santa brought a beautiful puppet theatre with hand puppets.  She also got a few books and a new watch.  Santa left a few things at her tita's house, too and so Emily got a huge box of 80 markers and a new scooter to top off the morning.  She was pretty excited.  We got to open our stocking with my parents on a video call at about 11pm PST and later this evening we got to be a part of their Christmas morning, too.  I guess having video call gift-opening is something we've been a little ahead of the curve on. ;)

This year, however, was the first year that Emily was really interested in watching my family in the States open their presents.  At first, Emily started to moan about wanting more presents, but once we got on the video call, she was rapt watching how they all took turns opening and admiring each other's gifts.  Finally, as the evening wore on she whispered to me, "Mommy, will you wrap my presents back up so I can open them again?"  How could I resist??  Fortunately, I did have enough wrapping paper (not my mother's daughter in that department!).  So I re-wrapped a few of her presents and she got to have a turn for about three rounds of gift opening.  It was adorable how much she wanted to be a part of it all and I thought it was quite an ingenious solution to ask me to re-wrap the gifts, most kids would probably throw a fit or just get sad and mopy about not having more presents.  She is a Christmas kid, through and through.

It's been a wonderful day.  I feel so grateful for living where I do; for a job that gives me the same holidays as my daughter; a wife who works so hard in the time she's given and for my most amazing little girl with whom to share this magical holiday.  I am so happy, too, that Angelines wasn't too worn out to participate in the fun of preparing for and partaking of Christmas morning.  This year is all about taking stock of what's truly important.  We aren't making the money we usually do this time of year, but I am certain that I am one of the wealthiest women on the planet.

Merry, merry Christmas to you all.

(...and to all a good night!)


The face paint was also a Christmas gift. ;)

1 comment:

  1. How I smile, and even tear up a bit, as I remember how precious our Em was this Christmas. She is a truly remarkable person. She has such a sense of "socialness" and maturity. And with her kind, fun-loving spirit and sense of empathy ... she is such a joy. A little person like Em doesn't just "happen", though ... you and Mama are leading every step of the way. GOOD JOB <3

    SOOOO ... you say you are "the wealthiest woman in the world"?? I beg to differ - I get to claim that title, for while you do have an amazing daughter I get to claim that same little (GRAND)daughter, plus FIVE other amazing daughters!! WOOOOO-WHOOOOOOOO!!!

    HAPPY NEW YEAR TO ME!!

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